It’s a revelation that has the world in suspense: Oprah Winfrey, the legendary talk show host and media mogul, has finally spoken about the real reason why she decided not to have children. In an exclusive interview with “People” published in early March 2025, the 71-year-old opened her heart and gave insights into a decision that has sparked speculation and curiosity for decades. For many of her fans, Oprah has always been a role model – a woman who seemingly achieved everything: fame, wealth and influence. But behind her radiant smile and unwavering presence lay a deeply personal choice that she has now explained in moving words.

“I always knew I didn’t want to have children,” Winfrey began the conversation with a clarity that left no doubt. “It wasn’t a decision I made one day – it was a feeling that was deeply rooted in me when I was young.” Her words came not as a justification, but as an honest reflection on her life and her priorities. Winfrey, who was born Orpah Gail Winfrey into poverty in Mississippi, had a childhood full of challenges: poverty, abuse and loss shaped her early years. But rather than using these experiences as an argument for or against having children, she emphasized that her choice was rather the result of a clear understanding of herself and her vision for life.

“When I hosted ‘The Oprah Winfrey Show,’ I saw every day how much sacrifice and dedication it takes to be a good mother,” she explained. “I interviewed women who gave everything for their children, and I saw how hard it can be. I felt I couldn’t muster that kind of energy – not because I didn’t want to, but because I knew my path was different.” Winfrey spoke about how she lived out her maternal instincts in other ways: through her work, her philanthropy and, in particular, the Oprah Winfrey Leadership Academy for Girls in South Africa, which she founded in 2007. “These girls are my children in ways I can’t explain,” she said with a smile. “They fulfill me in ways I never expected.”

The presenter, who has been with her partner Stedman Graham for over 30 years without ever marrying, also reflected on the societal expectations placed on women when she began her career. “Back then, you were expected to get married and have children – that was the measure of a fulfilling life,” she said. “But I never saw myself in that role. I wanted to be free to change the world, to tell stories and help others find their voices.” This freedom, she stressed, has allowed her to build a career that has touched millions of people – from the emotional moments of her talk show to her work as a producer and actress.

A particularly moving moment of the interview was when Winfrey spoke about her pregnancy at age 14 – a child she lost due to premature birth. “It was one of the most painful experiences of my life,” she admitted. “But even then, in all the chaos, I knew I wasn’t meant to be a mother. It was as if the universe was showing me another path.” This loss, as tragic as it was, did not stop her from living a fulfilling life, but rather encouraged her to channel her energy differently.

The reaction to Winfrey’s openness was overwhelming. On platforms like X, the comments poured in: “Oprah is proof that you don’t have to follow a traditional path to be happy,” wrote one user. Another added: “Her honesty is inspiring – it shows that we can write our own definitions of success.” But there were also critical voices who wondered whether her decision was selfish. Winfrey responded to this in the interview with a calmness that reflected her life wisdom: “It is not selfish to know yourself and live by it. It would have been selfish to bring children into the world without being able to give them the time and love they deserve.”

Winfrey stressed that she never regretted her choice – a feeling she also attributes to her relationship with Stedman. “We supported each other without having to meet society’s expectations,” she said. “If we had gotten married, we might not still be together – because I needed my freedom and he needed his.” This openness about her partnership and her decision not to have children shows a side of Winfrey that many had not expected: a woman who stands uncompromisingly by herself, regardless of outside judgments.

As the interview came to a close, Winfrey spoke about the lesson she has learned from her life: “Fulfillment comes not from what the world expects of you, but from what you give to your own heart.” For her, that was her career, her academy, and the countless people she inspired. As the world continues to debate her words, one thing remains clear: Oprah Winfrey not only wrote her own story, but also encouraged millions to follow their own paths – with or without children.